You’ll want to encourage your child’s effort at self dressing, even though it will take a good deal more time at first and cause some frustration for you and your child. If you can’t help resisting, busy yourself elsewhere, close enough to give assistance, but leaving your child to handle it all alone.
• You can make button handling easier by sewing large buttons on your child’s clothes and easier yet by sewing them on with elastic thread.
• Teach your child to button from the bottom up; chances of coming out even are better.
• And also teach your child to pull a zipper away as well as up from clothes to avoid catching skin.
• Buy pants and skirts with elasticized waistbands to make them easy to pull on and off, but be sure that the elastic isn’t so tight that it makes imprints on the skin or rides up.
• Try to get clothing with monograms, appliqués, or special trim on the front to help the child tell the front from the back.
• And, teach your child to look for the label in the back of underpants. If there’s no label, you might want to indicate the front by sewing on a “belly button,” or drawing one with a marking pen.
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